Many neurodivergent children struggle with self-concept and identity, particularly when their differences are framed as deficits rather than variations. They may internalize negative messages about their abilities or develop shame about their support needs. Without positive neurodivergent role models and affirming language about brain differences, children may see themselves as broken rather than different. This impacts their self-advocacy skills and willingness to seek appropriate support.
Identity formation begins early, and children who understand their neurodivergent traits as natural variations develop stronger self-esteem and self-advocacy skills. Research shows that neurodiversity-affirming education reduces internalized stigma and increases help-seeking behaviors. When children understand their strengths and challenges as part of their neurological makeup, they're more likely to develop effective coping strategies and seek appropriate accommodations throughout their lives.
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